Here’s a video that every parent with a child should watch to understand the difference between strength and responsibility when it comes to parenting, relationships with separated parents, and raising our children.

One of the most important things to remember is that we should all stay calm and positive in every situation with our children and our mate(s) together or separated at all times. I remember growing up as a child and whenever I would get upset my mother would always say to me take a deep breath and count to 10…That’s why we say Hotep (which means unshakeable peace) in the African consciousness community and if we all would just practice Hotep all the time we would begin to fix and heal some of our most pressing challenges.

It is time to stop passing down the negative and selfish way of thinking amongst our community, family, and children; it is time for a paradigm shift NOW!