There is a video going viral on the internet in which a man is watering his lawn. A handicapped lady in a wheel chair rides by and shouts out "the N word" to the man. He shouts back at the lady and proceeds to spray her with water. The lady then screams some other random curse words and says she is calling the police. Who was right in the situation?

The man was at his own home watering his grass, and this lady rides by and yells a racial slur. I think the man was justified. This word carries strong historical racial tension, and this lady should know better. On the other hand, this lady screamed words (non-physical), and he sprayed her with water, which could have potentially damaged her wheelchair.

In this situation, how should you respond?